Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Thursday, March 3, 2011

PeaceMaking


"Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God." - Matthew 5:9
We think of peacemakers as those as who try to get people to stop fighting.

But what if it is something else?


Scot McKnight tells us in his book One.Life
[P]eace is a result and not a goal.

Peace is the result of years in a good relationship. Marriages shaped by love result in peace. Instead of focusing on having a good marriage, a husband and a wife who focus on loving one another will have a marriage of peace.

Societies that are shaped by justice and love become societies marked by peace...

People who love find peace, whether they think about it or not.
Maybe being a peacemaker means choosing to do loving acts in an unloving situation. Maybe those are the ones who will be called the children of God

- fritz

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Married to a Friend


"Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another; - Romans 12:10
Jim Martin, moderator for A Place For the God Hungry is starting a series on marriage and says something to remember.
"Many marriages end because husbands and wives stop behaving like friends.

Marriages would be helped by husbands and wives renewing their friendship with each another. This would mean eliminating behaviors that should be not be a part of any loving friendship. This also means being intentional about behaving in ways that rebuild and give energy to their friendship" - Jim Martin1
Renew your friendship.

- fritz

1 - Read Jim's whole post here